醒世道言/ Awakening the Way of the World

醒世道言/ Awakening the Way of the World

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释怀 

如果你无法放下一个人,那就耐心等待,或许你等到的是那个人的回来,也或许是等到的是你自己的释怀。无论那种结果都是好的。我从来不为自己曾经付出的真心而后悔,因为失去真心的那个人才是真正的损失。一段没有结果的感情,只会不断消耗你的情绪,反反复复的联系和纠缠,才是对彼此最大的折磨和伤害。有的时候放的放手,就是放过自己,人家撇你的那一刻,一定是觉得某个瞬间没有你,他会活得更好,也就是那一刻,永远不值得被原谅。无论是亲情、爱情还是友情,断了就是断了,千万不要心存幻想,要明白失去是相互的,他都不怕失去你,你怕什么呢?

Relieve

If you can't let go of someone, then wait patiently. Perhaps what you wait for is their return, or perhaps it's your own liberation. Either outcome is good.

I never regret the sincerity I once offered, because the one who loses that sincerity is the one who truly suffers. A relationship without a future will only drain your emotions. Repeatedly reaching out and entangling yourselves is the greatest torment and harm you inflict on each other.

Sometimes, letting go is how you free yourself. The moment they dismiss you, it must be because they felt, in that instant, their life would be better without you. And that moment? Never deserves forgiveness.

Whether it's family, love, or friendship, once it's broken, it's broken. Don't cling to illusions. Understand that loss is mutual. If he isn't afraid to lose you, why should you be?

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